My obssession...

Good Day All! I have just realised that I am actually obssesed with the meaning of "romance"and "love".  Not a shocker, because I am a typical girl wanting the perfect guy and the perfect relationship.  Unfortunately for me, these are rare now-a-days as the term "romance" and "love" has no meaning to youngsters.  They are either in a relationship for the sake of their child (or expecting a baby), for status/ popularity and because all their friends are in steady relationships_missing the actual meaning of being in love with someone and actualy having strong feelings for someone you truely care about and want to spend the rest of your life with.



Below are 15 things guys do that we love...
Boys take note :)

1. When you catch them looking at you and they smile really big and blush
2. When they have long eyelashes
3. When they lift you up during a hug
4. When they give you butterflies
5. When they talk about your future children and life together
6. When they promise you forever and always
7. When they buy you things for no reason than just to see you smile
8. When they stand up for you
9. When boys put their fingers in the spaces between yours
10. When they make you their world
11. When boys hold you tight when you cry
12. When boys just sit and enjoy your company
13. When boys act like a gentleman
14. When boys let you fall asleep in their arms
15. When boys say they love you and mean it

For the single ladies out their, see how many of these 15 things are true in your life...

1. Having those close friends that mean the world to you
2. Watching movies that make you cry
3. Chuck & Blair
4. Smiling when you receive a cute tesxt message (from your crush or admirer)
5. Love songs
6. Coloured jeans
7. New heels/ platforms
8. Getting ready to go out with your friends
9. Looking Fabulous
10. The beach
11. Putting the music on its loudest and singing your heart out
12. Loving your life
13. Hoping you will have the perfect relationship someday
14. Loving the fact that you're a girl
15. Eating chocolate and ice cream

Whether we like it or not, relationships are a trend amongst youngsters today and their expectations are in constant change.  They compete with friends as to see who has the best boyfriend/ girlfriend, who got the most expensive gift from their partner and which couple dresses and looks cute together.  Have I got news for you people: being in a relationship is not all about the "look", it goes deeper into the actual feeling one has when with your partner and how you complement each other in life.
Tip of the day:  If you aren't happy with being single, you will never be happy in a relationship.  Get your own life and love it first and then share it.  There's a difference between who we love, who we settle with and who we're meant for.